Masculinity = Solidity
6 min readSep 29, 2022
For better models than binary heteronormativity or woo-woo talk
I’ve been listening to David Deida’s 20-year-old and dangerously named classic The Way Of The Superior Man, deep waters on whose surface I found a textured reflection of a lot of my strengths and struggles as a self.
It made it clear to me that my essence is decidedly “masculine” (more on this), comfortingly reaffirming my cis…